Home Alone

Single mother, single parent taking the responsibility of upbringing of her child might be common in the West too but in this part of world where family relations are very close, the separation of one parent usually father, leaves the family shattered, all alone and in suffering.

Tasleema, 33, is living in a single room which serves as a kitchen and bedroom as well. For her and her two children aged 8 and 6.

After the death of her husband, she returned to her father’s home but “felt a change in her parent’s attitude”. “They asked me to live separately in a room which was meant for paying guests,” She said.

Tasleema has no permanent source of income but she feels “God has put His hand on her and she manages to run her one room home”.

Her sisters have been a continuous support; her in-laws send her half the produce of their 2 kanal land, Bait-ul-mall gives her monthly fee of 1000 rupees, an orphanage is providing her some daily kitchen commodities and she has herself started tailoring to meet the expenses. “But despite of all these helps, it is still difficult to run a house and most importantly the growing children. I don’t hesitate if anybody tells me this is the organization and they can help us financially. I can do anything for my children,” says Tasleema.

Tasleema’s parents are well off, however, they don’t help her. “I have two brothers and they are ashamed of me because I wander go orphanages and other such places but they don’t want to spend a single rupee on my children. They have disowned my children. They don’t allow my children to enter their house,” she says.

She if during night somebody knocks the main door they get frightened. And if any of her children falls ill she has to call her cousins for help despite her parents and brothers living next door.more

Sopore Massacre

An eyewitness of the infamous “Jan 6 Sopore massacre”, Abdul Hamid Bhat, narrates the horrid tale of the slaughter and arson by men in uniform.

On Jan 6, 1993, it was 8:55 in the morning and there was an explosion somewhere nearby. From a young age I have the habit of reading the newspaper every morning on time. As usual I went to the newspaper stall near Degree College, to get my newspaper. Everything appeared to be okay, still there was some unease in the air. People were talking about that explosion which, it was later known, was actually an IED (Improvised Explosive Device) blast in the ‘New Colony’ area of Sopore.

I got my newspaper and went to a nearby shop, Nishat Textiles, in the Main Chowk to get something. It must have been around 9:55 am that a sound of a single bullet shot was heard. Nishat Textiles was visible from the bunkers of a nearby BSF camp housed in the State Bank Building. We ran a few paces towards main Bazar, which we thought was a bit safer. It was just behind the main Chowk where a J&K Bank branch is located now. We took shelter inside a building and went upstairs on the 2nd floor. More gunfire was heard.

There were around 10-12 men and some women in the room. Everybody lay flat. I was youngest among the people marooned in that room. Unmarried and just over 24 then, I tried to peep through the window. Other people wouldn’t move even when we heard heavy footsteps on the roads and the BSF men saying, ‘Jo be samney aayai maar daalo sab ko. (Kill whosoever comes your way!).

At 10.30 a.m. we heard a bus coming and I again peeped through the window. A SRTC bus, JKY 1901 was moving on the Sopore-Bandipora Road. The BSF men stopped the bus and ordered the driver out. Some BSF men boarded the bus and started firing on the passengers indiscriminately. There was a bloodbath but some still escaped bullets. They were bundled in the groups of threes and shot one by one. More than 20 people were killed in that bus alone.

After killing the passengers, the troopers started spraying gun powder, petrol and kerosene on the surrounding buildings and then torched them. They building that we were hiding in was also set on fire. The BSF men were looking like hungry beasts; they were slaughtering anybody coming their way.

We thought we would die any moment. If we left the building, the marauding troopers would kill us and if we stayed there in the room we would be burnt alive. As the ceiling of our room caught fire, we started think that death was now imminent. It was so close. I said to the other people in the room that “if anybody among you survives and my body is found, please tell the people that I was actually a resident of Islamabad and was working here in a finance company.” I also requested them to send my body to my native town for burial only if my face was recognizable. “Otherwise get me buried in Sopore”, I remember telling that to the people in that room. more

Sleepless in Srinagar

Shazia, 21, hasn’t slept well for a year now. She takes sleeping pills every night which makes her feel drowsy, but her eyes stay open. Shazia has insomnia—the chronic inability to fall asleep or remain asleep for an adequate length of time.

Shazia says she feels bored, and hates her life. Her mind always remains preoccupied with new job opportunities. She wants to work, and feels she should be financially independent. Shazia is a graduate, and says that if she gets a job, it could help be a distraction from her problems. After exams in 10th, she wanted to become a doctor; so she went to ask a doctor for memory-enhancing medication to help her study. Unfortunately, she says, her memory only started fading away.

Shazia has been aggressive since her mother died while Shazia was still a child. Back then, if her father or siblings did not give her what she wanted, she would start banging her head against the walls. Shazia remembers, “Once, my father said no to my demand, and I started hitting my head against the wall. That day I got five or six stitches on my head.” But with time she realized that this behavior was dangerous, so she stopped.

“Sometimes, I feel like I should kill myself for all the mistakes I’ve made,” she says. “I know I used to irritate my father a lot and my siblings too. Last time I scratched our childhood photographs, and now I’m feeling sorry for that too,” says Shazia while she frowns and looks down.

Dr. Arshid Hussain, a psychiatrist of Kashmir says, “Insomnia is not a disease, it is the manifestation of something underlined—either physiological or pathological.” Sometimes physical illness or even environmental changes like room temperature changes can also cause insomnia. “It usually occurs in patients who are going through stress in life or are suffering from other health issues.”

Shazia is one such patient. She actually has epilepsy—a neurological disorder marked by sudden recurrent episodes of sensory disturbance, loss of consciousness, or convulsions, associated with abnormal electrical activity in the brain.

She also has a thyroid disorder which adds to her sleeplessness. “At night I feel cold one minute, and hot the next,” she says. “And I always feel restless.” When her family started noticing her gradual memory loss, they consulted a Unani doctor so she did not have to deal with the side effects of allopathic medications. When the herbal medicines did not help, she consulted a psychiatrist. Her family says they are seeing some improvement now, but there is still a long way to go; because Shazia still feels tired when she wakes up every morning.

Shazia’s sister says, “She used to help me in the kitchen and with other day-to-day responsibilities, but now she prefers to stay in bed. All she says is that she doesn’t have the energy to do anything. I believe that all the medication that’s been given to her since childhood is responsible for her condition today. Her sister adds, “Yes, she had problems, but the medicines have only added to her problems.”

The human body works in a systematic pattern with coordination between various chemicals and hormones released from body organs in response to stimulus. The adaption of this response to stimuli is regulated by the brain in a circadian rhythm. To perform various functions, a body needs energy in the form of nutrition and adequate rest in the form of sleep. Anything which disturbs the balance between work and rest leads to an alteration in the sleep pattern. The human body usually requires 8 hours of sleep. more

Safety First

The fire at Kolkata’s AMRI hospital that left at least 90 people dead served as an eye opener to the government of Jammu & Kashmir. After Kolkata incident Chief Minister, Omar Abdullah issued instructions for a safety audit of all major hospitals in the state. Its preliminary report has revealed that all major hospitals in Jammu and Kashmir lack the proper safety standards, putting thousands of patients at risk.

The audit was intended for 157 hospitals across the state and Dr. G.A. Bhat, Director General of Fire and Emergency Services says, “We were not able to audit all the hospitals as per our own norms as some of the hospitals did not share their building blueprints, layout plans with us and where people cooperated we gave our recommendations but the problem is whenever we give our recommendations they remain on papers only, nothing really happens on the ground.”

Dr. Bhat further says, “During the audit we found SKIMS hospital is the only hospital which was at least having Riser system and the basic firefighting equipment available on all floors but either the pipes were not attached to nozzles or pipes were not available. System is there but it needs maintenance.” He also says SKIMS hospital is an institute where there is always a heavy rush of patients but they don’t need to panic, as the fire service station near the hospital is always ready for their help. This station has an imported fire tender which costs Rs. six crores and it is exclusively available for SKIMS.

Before the report was sent to the chief minister, hospital management had already started working on the defunct firefighting equipment. Fire extinguishers which are available in almost every ward have been refilled; fire alarms and fire detection equipments are under renovation. Presently, the firefighting systems are put in place, but surprisingly none of them are connected to water sources.

Jang Bahadur Singh, Chief Security Officer SKIMS, who is reviewing the system thoroughly says, “Nozzles attached to the underground water storage were not functioning, but we have directed our engineers and it is going to be functional in two or three weeks. Besides that we have different kind of fire extinguishers available for different kind of fires (electric, chemical or others) and if God forbid any bigger incident happen were to happen, we have two exits on both sides of the wards from where patients can be easily evacuated along with their beds.” SKIMS hospital has an underground water storage tank with a capacity of 250000 liters and a terrestrial tank as well. In this hospital, even a circular has been issued to all officials of the hospital to switch off their room heaters, gas heaters, and air conditioners while leaving their rooms. more

Trail and error

A shopping mall, shopping centre or simply mall is one or more buildings forming a complex of shops for shopping that is all under one roof, but in the Kashmir the meaning changes to only ‘selected garments under one roof.’

The concept of shopping malls in Kashmir developed with the inauguration of Srinagar’s MS Shopping Mall in 2005. Since then, private and government organizations have been working to establish more malls in Srinagar and its outskirts.

The first year of business for the privately owned Al Hyder Shopping Mall in the Parraypora area saw every branded store doing business of more than one or one and a half crores, which, according to storeowners, is a good start. But after three years, every branded store had turned into a multi brand store. Mushtaq Ahmad, a salesman, says his transition from working at Priknit and then New Wani Arts made him realize how unpredictable business can be.

“Initially, companies would request all stores at a mall to keep a stock of goods, but since the 2010 hartals and curfews, these companies only send us limited older stock, due to which we have lost valuable customers,” he says. “To regain our customers, we kept our own new stock in stores, and changed our stores into multi brand ones. But people come and ask for company discounts, which is not possible now, and so many end up not buying anything,” he adds. This store still has summer stock on display as they weren’t in good financial standing to get a fresh winter stock. But it’s not just the older stock element that plays a role in failing to maintain customers. The high rates with minimal room for discounts also contribute. more

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A parcel bomb blast in Srinagar Office of the British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC) changed the life of its then correspondent, Yusuf Jameel. he still sits in the same office but never dares to sit in the same room where he lost his friend in the blast. more

Drinking to Death?

Adil (name changed), 22, had a fever for two weeks and took paracetamol. But the fever didn’t subside. Anxious, his parents consulted a doctor in their locality of Awantipora, who prescribed medical examinations and blood reports. These confirmed that Adil had jaundice—a waterborne disease. Three months later, Adil is still on medication because he was not diagnosed early enough; and his doctor has suggested he remain under observation for about a year.

In Awantipora, reservoir tanks store water from the Jehlum, supplied to the entire town of Awantipora without any filtration whatsoever. And residents are facing the consequences.

Naseema, a resident of Kumar mohalla says, “The water they provide us is no better than urine and we boil that urine as we do not has any other option rather than to drink that water.”

People of this town receive water in the morning for only one hour, and the next time they see water flowing from their taps is after 24 hours. Sometimes, there is no water supply at all for two consecutive days. “In that one hour we fill up our all tanks which we use for washing, cleaning and bathing,” says another resident, Shameema. “People can’t imagine the pathetic conditions we are living in. No one can keep their houses clean as we don’t get a sufficient water supply,” she adds.

Doctors in Awantipora observe that initially, residents would drink tap water without boiling it, but gradually people realized that there was an increase in the number of complaints related to stomach aches and intestinal infections—leading them to conclude that they were being supplied untreated water.

Ahmadullah Dar, a resident says, “I do not even trust the tube well water now because so far no one, not even government, has ever tested the water.” Ahmadullah has un-controlled thyroid problem which he believes he acquired from unsafe, untreated drinking water.

Economic indicators reveal that most residents of this town live below the poverty line, and therefore can’t afford to boil their water. Mohammad Shaban Kumar, a stone cutter says, “They provided us with six tube wells for drinking purposes, but among them only four tube wells are working. We too had one in our Mohalla, but that used to give black water first and then it stopped giving that black water too. Presently our women have to go to another mohalla from where they get water for drinking at least, and there they have to wait for their turn in a line of 15 or 20 women.”

The filtration plant which was planned to be setup before 2008, is still in the process of being set up, according to officials. Manzoor Ahmad, JE Civil Division, PHE Awantipora, says it is going to take five or six more months to complete the process of ‘civil construction and allotments’ and after that, they can’t say how long it would take to complete the project—which is assumed to provide 1MGD (million gallons/day) water. more